On Life/Success

articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions

No Liability

I thought a lot about the pains I felt about work. then I realized it was all fun like a hobby only if i didn’t take it too seriously as if my life depended on it. I have no liabilities and only assets. Those I don’t want to pursue like recievables I can forgive and…

Fixed Cost of success

After the corona lockdowns I got very busy and with it come the expected new problems of collecting payments. It is natural. We wish it didn’t occur but that is the hidden cost of doing business. I have to give discounts, give extended credit and sometimes risk not getting paid. It just seems like I…

Calmer

My mind is getting slower and calmer as my career is taking the new direction I had been planning as compared with my first half. So basically I laying the foundation of my career for 50 to 60 years. I had plenty of time to prepare with 3 years of corona.

Psychobiology

With my last 30+ classes of motivation to the students of class 11, I realize I have very close finding the single topic I am willing to commit myself to for the rest of my life that will encompass all my knoweldge. This field is: PSYCHOBIOLOGY or BIOPSYCHOLOGY With this topic I can integrate the…

My new strategic thinking

Lately I am having thoughts that I am old and geting older every day. It follows that I cannot rely on my od strategies for business thinking. That od way can be stated as: Do whatever you feel urged to do. Get as much money from the client as you can Become the center of…

A brighter future

I am still undecided about how to present my ideas to the new college. I have failed too much I guess to have any hopes of long term employment with any client. It is sad. At times I wonder why it has to be that way. Always in hindsight i think that the failure was…

A dilemma

I had a very good long nap after so many days of busyness. I think of the direction of my career now, a lot with this new opportunity that I am sitting on. I dont know if I should pursue it till the end or just let it pass like all those before it. Have…

So much learning

Finally the college training project is reaching completion, 2 classes left. Wow. It has been a great journey into the psyche of 16 to 20 years old, 1500 of them in 20 days. I got to know each one of them, their struggles, their pain, their cures. Today I feel like I am back from…

What I could have been

Today is another in my new life with the college. Someone asked me if i had come as permanent. I was taken aback as after singapore it was the first time anyone mentioned that word to me. I have worked in so many places over the years. Nothing lasted. I always wonder if it was…

being a different man

I am feeling something new , strange. As i work for this new client, despite all the high hopes I am given, I do not feel the attachment I used to feel before. It is because I have been betrayed so many times. is it good or bad? I now dont have my hopes high…