On Life/Success

articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions

Exploitation and success

No body wants to be exploited, talent wise (not physically).  Yet at the beginning you have to allow yourself to be exploited, otherwise you can never find your talent.  However, at one point you must wake up and refuse to be exploited.  Name most successful people, they passed through this law of success.  Recently i…

The painful part of Management consulting

Today at my consulting assignment at a bank, i felt so strange.  As though a daily laborer, working at people’s mercy.  It is a tough position to live by.  Yet is my way of living always on the emotional edge.  Imagine having to change your house everyday, starting a career everyday, having to be prepared…

Threat Analysis: hiring a domestic helper

It is not that bad.  I’m myself struggling with the reality of having a hire a domestic helper.  But I’m not used to it.  It is a new thing for me.  I’ve tried to avoid thinking about it. But with my baby growing up and needing more assistance, I am compelled to find one.  But…

How are people doing it?

Marriage is a sacred thing.  But every day i am getting deeper into marriage in terms of years and events (good news, bad news, unexpected, unprecedented, unplanned) well, the more i am wondering how people have been doing it?  What do i mean by it?  1.  Staying together: physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually 2.  Loving…

A new look at marriage

Why are relationship complex in west while it is not so volatile in the east? Marriage should be a one way traffic. If there is a way back or out it won’t work out.  At the onset of a small issue or engram, it looks for an opportunity to fall apart.