On Life/Success

articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions

Life is a 4 wagon train

It was a workshop for students who passed out from what we call in Nepal the Iron Gate or class 10.  I first gave them all a piece of paper and asked them to fold it into as many folds are they think they are aspects of their lives.  Some folded into two signifying themselves…

Marriage: the ultimate test for success

Marriages are made in heaven.  But that is not all.  Marriage will determine whether you will go to heaven or hell not after this life but during this life.  Are you married?  Then be warned because your happiness lies how well you manage your marriage.  Dont’ worry if your spouse is not doing it.  You…

In Business too: soul matters

Many times in business, we reach a point where we have to choose between following the voice of your soul or the material gain.  Don’t confuse the voice of the soul with the voice of the ego.  They are quite similar but their outcome both internal and external are drastically different.  If you lose your…

Detoxifying your life

It is important for us to pause in our hectic life.  We all know that but we can’t. This is for two reasons: 1.  We have too much work 2.  We are afraid to have to live without work. However work of the nature that we do that is for money, is contaminating one’s spiritual body. …

Beating the demon of doom

  Life is tough that is why it is so much fun.  I woke up this moring asking myself why i was born?  When will this uncertainty end?  What if nothing works? But i always know that i have to get rid all these destructive thoughts, that belong to a dark force in the universe. …

Coming in terms with one’s specialness

Having a gift is both a curse and a boon.  I just don’t belong anywhere.  I have a talent that separates me from everyone.  Yet all seek the fruit of this talent. It is good. It is being an artist.  But i won’t get an entry in the artist’s club either.  Many people have a…

How to keep your head high

Life is hard if you are don’t have a strong spirit.  Even unwillingly people around you, will cause you to feel demoralized.  And all they tried to do was to get the best deal for themselves.  Sure it was mindless but it was not necessarily malicious.  However on the receiving end, it doesn’t look that…

Uproooting inaction

Despite having so much talent inside of you, you are not able to bring them out.  You are unnecessarily nervous. The reason may lie behind fears: 1.  Fear of rejection 2.  Fear of losing 3.  Fear of bad feeling 4.  Fear of making mistakes 5.  Fear of being laughed at 6.  Fear of death of ego/image…

How to develop attitude

Among success trainers/coaches/gurus, we revel in a new psychological-behavioral discovery made in the last 20th Century. Those we made rockets were thankful to the three laws of Newton.  Those who making complex forcasting of various kinds are thankful to mathmaticians such as calculus.  Those fighting crimes are thankful to the two DNA discoverers, Watson and…

Showing the way to success to Safal

At 16 he woke up to the consciousness that there was more to life than just passing exams and then looking for a job.  First he got a job as a RJ and producer where he worked for 2 years and two sharing by youths (one a love problem and the other a child abuse…