On Life/Success
articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions
Re-discovering luxury
The last week was packed: 6 continous training days. At a point prior to that I was bored by my non-working routine that is supposed to be the most luxurious and privileged life for which I have worked so hard. Then this busy period came: i had to give up swimming, napping and meditation in…
A new Me
Something liberating is occuring in me after the wart on my face was removed. Warts represent a period of frustration in a past time. In my case I think it started during or after my days in acetravels. Prior I was a happy go lucky type. After Ace, I became rigid, I had to: I…
I play my own game
I am free to write on my blog after a long time. I was busy working, then being sick , then solving home issues. Last week I felt a bit depressed when I saw two contemporaries publishing a magazine and the other going public. But I soon accepted that I am not playing their games….
Real Luxury in the mind
Lately I am feeling an indomitable sense of dignity and fearlessless. Worries, pettiness, over sentitiveness were still disturbing me despite my exalted state. After a book on happiness, I was able to find the cause. Cortisol is built up in high amount around a negative thought because of evolution. In the earlier days it was…
Rigid but flexible
I am finding a different kind of peace lately. It is coming out of flexibity. I am no more rigid, not that I was so rigid. But now I have mastered an art of being rigid with my goal but being flexible with the process. I guess is just needed to take time. I have…
New role
It is my first day as a counselor at a new office with nothing to do. This is the normal life for most adults in the first hours of work. It was even the same for me when I was at various organisations. I guess I lost touch since it has been so long ago….
new avatar
I had cortisol filled evening yesterday after my son said that people humilated me because i behaved childishly. This was the last straw in a series of humiliation from a series of people for being friendly, opening debate and building a positive environment. They became so confident out of my own expense that now they…
Ambiguities
I am in my new job of counselor for a college. Despite ambiguities in my payment, I have become convinced that this is a very important investment in my career. Ambiguities are a part of life of someone who wants to find perfect happiness. Some call it risk. Nothing risked nothing gained. Will I quit…
Freedom and marriage
I have been married for now 15 years. In my past lives I have run away from marriage believing the concept that marriage is binding. However it was all a lie. At least it is not true in today’s modern age if you give your wife independence and authority. this sword has two sides. One…
criticising
every time you are criticized you feel bad. But then that is where the similarity with all ends. some react aggressively some passively some are able to ignore it it is amazing why people criticize others. but it does some good: some people realize and change some people find a different perspective to themselves some…