On Life/Success
articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions
A speech that shook the soul of laziness
Today in training i just woke up the soul of the students who had been a lazy as most students are. i could feel the energy pattern change so drastically: they just had straigher bodies, eyes on the front, and almost resentful of any time they wasted. It is these moments that you live for…
Choose to be the best in whatever you do
Imagine packing the power of nuclear plant in a mobile. That brings negative image. Instead imagine packing the power of an elephant in a mouse. That would be cool, won’t it? Now imagine you could have the charisma of obama, the entrepreneurship of Bill Gates, the spitual acumen of a mahayogi, the sensuality of an…
Laugh your problems away
Do you feel so angry, so irritated, so stressed, so bored, so afraid at times? 1. First acknowledge the feeling. Don’t deny it. You are not the dalai lama, remember. 2. Ask yourself why you should so special that life should not throw at you some of its shit! 3. Actually enjoy the feeling because…
Fear and Indecision
I consider myself so lucky to be able to live all four-folds of life simultaneously: the brahmacharya, the householder, the career man and the renunciant. I’ll talk more about them in details in another post. Now i want to talk about the great leverage this simultaneous 4-fold life style gives to me and if you…
The new truth about getting rich or simply surviving
Did you ever care that your plumber or your electrician , the local laborer, the cabbie , the grocery shop owner and similar people you buy services or products from, survive, have enough to eat or not? You don’t. you buy what you need from them, and then you don’t want to hear from them. …
A new way to look at career problems
Look at the world around you. Many of us won’t have to time to do that simple thing. When i was young and deciding on the career that i would pursue, i made it a point that my career will allow me time to look both outside and inside myself on a regular basis. I…
Living with elderly parents
It is an emotionally challenging aspect of life. Many people are unaware of the psychological impact it has both on the elderly parents and the young generation. As a result they take the conflicts that arise either in silence or mental-verbal violence. In silence, the quality of life detoriates, in violence no life remains. The…
New times, new roles: redefining yourself
Even a comparatively poor country like Nepal is getting into the harsh realities of a burstling economy. There was a time when only the poor had to work heavily to be able to survive. Today even the rich and the middle class are working as much as they can. Why? It is no longer because…
Negative Attitude: your own nemesis
You think you have done nothing wrong. You have done the best you could. Because people have been saying you should communicate well, you have tried to be as polite as was possible. Yet you get negative comments or feedbacks from others. From my consulting work, i have come to the conclusion that is phenomenon…
Living in the Borderline
Life of a management consultant is always on the borderline of super business and abosolute inaction. For several months you are so busy, you are there saving companies. Then suddenly you complete your job and it will be a while before you get the next assignment. Office workers and business men relish on the fact…