Marriage: the ultimate test for success

Marriages are made in heaven.  But that is not all.  Marriage will determine whether you will go to heaven or hell not after this life but during this life. 

Are you married?  Then be warned because your happiness lies how well you manage your marriage.  Dont’ worry if your spouse is not doing it.  You do it. You are reading this write-up aren’t you?

In Nepal, marriages are going to go through tough times with both spouses working, families breaking up, insecurity, rising costs and so on.  There will be many differences because unlike in the last generation, this time women are strongly opiniated.  If the couple can’t figure this out they will quarrel unnessarily. 

It is a shame that we studied so much about math, biology or even psychology not to mention about how to make money, but not one single credit hour of How to marriages work successfully forever. 

Perhaps we are too shy to admit we are not man or woman enough to manage a simple thing as marriage.  But it doesn’t have to be this way. 

Thanks to our ancestors and the mythical foundation they have made about marriage, we will not see the breaking of marriage like in the west or even a slowdown in marriage rates. 

But happiness in marriages will decrease if we don’t do something now. 

So if you feel you need help in your marriage start by going to this site www.marriage.about.com

there is nothing to be ashamed of having a problem in marriage.  Don’t put the dirt under the carpet. 

If you fall from grace in marriage, you will lose your vitality.  If you rise to grace in your marriage, you will be glorious.