On Life/Success

articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions

Looking into the eyes of uncertainty

Here i am at a standstill of life.  I love this view: it’s a cliff; in front of me i see nothing; it is a thick dark cloud.  it could be a bottomless pit or it a field of crops.  i can jump left , right, or just front.  it can be a far jump…

Tasting the End of life every once in a while

Again my pipeline is getting dry.  I was totally busy for the last two months.  I did not have the time to sell my time.  I am looking at a prospect of free time.  To many the life of a freelancer might seem fearsome.  It is like being out of job every month and then…

Transforming marital stress into creativity

I think I cracked the mystery of one aspect of life, one that is related to attraction to the opposite sex, marriage and the happy-ever-after part.    My baby is 2 years old.  My wife is fully absorbed in him and the little energy she has left goes to her career.  Good but that leaves…

Real celibacy begins after marriage

It seems an absurd idea but I’ll vouch for it. I guess it has to be that way.   Either one of the couple is likely to develop problems preventing sex.  It could be: impotency due to stress at work Traveling job Permanent outstation Gyno Complication Diabetes Accidents Surgery Anger coming from a quarel with…

What if i did not have the time?

It is a general strike in Nepal. It means the country has come to a halt since three days.  Like others my work also has been stopped.  I lose money but in these moments i gained much more.  I use these times to reflect and contemplate.  This time i had the chance to come face…

If you want to get into banking…

They’ll ask you why you want to join banking.  Don’t answer crap like for glamor, for getting loans, for status, for working in AC, for getting a car.  Be smart.    10 reasons to join bank can be: 1. Transparency : other private limited companies have a double account system.  One for themselves and the…

The new landscape of ‘getting a job’

Young generation of job-seekers haven’t yet got the clue that the world of recruiting has changed.  They think they are going to find treasure island using an outdated map.  So what am i talking about? Outdated map Commercial ventures are not old in Nepal.  They have been quite active only since the last 30 years or…

Life is a 4 wagon train

It was a workshop for students who passed out from what we call in Nepal the Iron Gate or class 10.  I first gave them all a piece of paper and asked them to fold it into as many folds are they think they are aspects of their lives.  Some folded into two signifying themselves…

Marriage: the ultimate test for success

Marriages are made in heaven.  But that is not all.  Marriage will determine whether you will go to heaven or hell not after this life but during this life.  Are you married?  Then be warned because your happiness lies how well you manage your marriage.  Dont’ worry if your spouse is not doing it.  You…

In Business too: soul matters

Many times in business, we reach a point where we have to choose between following the voice of your soul or the material gain.  Don’t confuse the voice of the soul with the voice of the ego.  They are quite similar but their outcome both internal and external are drastically different.  If you lose your…