On Life/Success
articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions
Staying Forever young
In the party yesterday, I saw people who were about 10 years older than I. They looked old. But that is not what made me think. Their skin was not normal: it was hard, devoid of juice, without brightness.  I did not want to be like them. They were job-holders, some were more successful…
Wake up before it is too late!
When passions turns into business, the feeling is not good. Either you change and mend your ways or your are headed to the doldrums of misery.  I had a rude wake up call yesterday when two days of my motivation wks were postponed and was left without work for these two days. It is…
The battle against weight gain
When you reach a certain level of success, food is too ample and most of time free. You wished that was the case when one were unemployed. But such is the process of life.  It is at these time of illusionary grandeur that one forgets that food means calories. This will lead to fats. …
Life’s like the Sahara Desert
Life is a mountain that needs to be climbed many have said. There was this crazy motivator who says, “no life is like a desert”. Life is not static waiting to be climbed. Instead it is a terrain that changes everyday like the sand dunes. Lately i have come to see life in the second…
Evolution of Eating
First people ate because they were hungry.  Then they ate because it was time to eat: breakfast, lunch, dinner.  These two modes of eating is now causing the problem of being overweight.  Now the wise generation, eats because it has to compensate the loss of calories and components (minerals, vitamins, etc) to…
Blame it on stress and low energy
 Most people would have read the book on relationship between man and woman, named Men are from Mars , Women are from Venus by John Gray.  It basically says that the root of marital discord or any male/female conflict is due to the 2 different modes of communication. At first it worked for…
Looking into the eyes of uncertainty
Here i am at a standstill of life. I love this view: it’s a cliff; in front of me i see nothing; it is a thick dark cloud. it could be a bottomless pit or it a field of crops. i can jump left , right, or just front. it can be a far jump…
Tasting the End of life every once in a while
Again my pipeline is getting dry. I was totally busy for the last two months. I did not have the time to sell my time. I am looking at a prospect of free time. To many the life of a freelancer might seem fearsome. It is like being out of job every month and then…
Transforming marital stress into creativity
I think I cracked the mystery of one aspect of life, one that is related to attraction to the opposite sex, marriage and the happy-ever-after part.  My baby is 2 years old. My wife is fully absorbed in him and the little energy she has left goes to her career. Good but that leaves…
Real celibacy begins after marriage
It seems an absurd idea but I’ll vouch for it. I guess it has to be that way.  Either one of the couple is likely to develop problems preventing sex. It could be: impotency due to stress at work Traveling job Permanent outstation Gyno Complication Diabetes Accidents Surgery Anger coming from a quarel with…