Real celibacy begins after marriage

It seems an absurd idea but I’ll vouch for it.

I guess it has to be that way.

 

Either one of the couple is likely to develop problems preventing sex.  It could be:

• impotency due to stress at work
• Traveling job
• Permanent outstation
• Gyno Complication
• Diabetes
• Accidents
• Surgery
• Anger coming from a quarel with the partner

 

What shouldl the other do? If your partner is not capable to having sex what options do you have?

1. Develop sexual frustration and become a Freud archetype
2. Have an extra marital affair
3. Go for no-strings-attached one-night-stands through bars, chat rooms, dating services, escorting services, or anything that is out there to carter this market
4. Get into vices like chain smoking, heavy alcohol consumption, drugs, compulsive eating/shopping/gossiping and the like
5. Think of some more!!

 

Really there is not much options; we think.  However there is a better if not best way out. 

 

Take this opportunity to develop the skills of celibacy.  Basically it means :

Transforming the energy that the sexual organs produce in order to get release of their fluid, into a creative energy, healing energy and subliming energy. 

 

Those who succeed at this option of celibacy become champions in life be it as business tycoons, political icons or spiritual powerhouse or any creative line.    

 

So what you waiting for?  Don’t miss this shot at greatness.  Every curse is a blessing in disguise.