On Life/Success
articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions
What if i did not have the time?
It is a general strike in Nepal. It means the country has come to a halt since three days. Like others my work also has been stopped. I lose money but in these moments i gained much more. I use these times to reflect and contemplate. This time i had the chance to come face…
If you want to get into banking…
They’ll ask you why you want to join banking. Don’t answer crap like for glamor, for getting loans, for status, for working in AC, for getting a car. Be smart.  10 reasons to join bank can be: 1. Transparency : other private limited companies have a double account system. One for themselves and the…
The new landscape of ‘getting a job’
Young generation of job-seekers haven’t yet got the clue that the world of recruiting has changed. They think they are going to find treasure island using an outdated map. So what am i talking about? Outdated map Commercial ventures are not old in Nepal. They have been quite active only since the last 30 years or…
Life is a 4 wagon train
It was a workshop for students who passed out from what we call in Nepal the Iron Gate or class 10. I first gave them all a piece of paper and asked them to fold it into as many folds are they think they are aspects of their lives. Some folded into two signifying themselves…
Marriage: the ultimate test for success
Marriages are made in heaven. But that is not all. Marriage will determine whether you will go to heaven or hell not after this life but during this life. Are you married? Then be warned because your happiness lies how well you manage your marriage. Dont’ worry if your spouse is not doing it. You…
In Business too: soul matters
Many times in business, we reach a point where we have to choose between following the voice of your soul or the material gain. Don’t confuse the voice of the soul with the voice of the ego. They are quite similar but their outcome both internal and external are drastically different. If you lose your…
Detoxifying your life
It is important for us to pause in our hectic life. We all know that but we can’t. This is for two reasons: 1. We have too much work 2. We are afraid to have to live without work. However work of the nature that we do that is for money, is contaminating one’s spiritual body. …
Beating the demon of doom
 Life is tough that is why it is so much fun. I woke up this moring asking myself why i was born? When will this uncertainty end? What if nothing works? But i always know that i have to get rid all these destructive thoughts, that belong to a dark force in the universe. …
Coming in terms with one’s specialness
Having a gift is both a curse and a boon. I just don’t belong anywhere. I have a talent that separates me from everyone. Yet all seek the fruit of this talent. It is good. It is being an artist. But i won’t get an entry in the artist’s club either. Many people have a…
How to keep your head high
Life is hard if you are don’t have a strong spirit. Even unwillingly people around you, will cause you to feel demoralized. And all they tried to do was to get the best deal for themselves. Sure it was mindless but it was not necessarily malicious. However on the receiving end, it doesn’t look that…