On Life/Success

articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions

Decide not to be unlucky

 I started the day as bad as it gets. 1. Bad dreams 2. Lousy feeling 3. New Client Company with total unspecified require mints. 4. My bike was Punctured 5. I was Getting  late I was starting the consulting and then chose I needed to get out this of bad day syndrom. I made the …

Looking for direction

Where do I stand in life? One that is so unique. Why do I bother with other people ‘s dreams? Why don’t I settle down in one single organization? Why do I take responsiblity of other people’s success? Why do I accept the role Of a ONE- DAY CEO with all its pressure but not…

Anuradha Koirala CNN Hero 2010: a cosmic reward

The story of Anuradha Koirala from oblivion to global celebrity is inspiring.  But more than that is the story of the three youths who started this wave, this tsunami.  They had the knoweldge of how the internet, facebook, media and mass psychology worked.  They put it to use and here we are today with the…

Meeting an accident

I took a shorter route to my workshop of today.  How could i know that it was a decision i would regret.  My car was moving slowly.  I slow a bike speeding towards me trying to take over a pickup.  I just stopped.  The bike went out of control and hit my bumber.  The rider…

Don’t lose the war against low morale

I see these young people at work losing the edge in terms of motivation.  They just can’t hold their happiness.  It shocks me at why people allow themselves to degrade themselves being succumb by grieavances.  they they be genuine or fictituous, it is irrelevant.  Why do people allow themselves to fall in the gutters of…

On mind power

The greatest gift i think a person can ask for is the ability to control one’s mind.  I did my usual thirty minutes skipping.  In the process now-a-days i practice imagining that i am running in a beach, or a forest or even in the sun/space.  Now tell me , is that not better than actually…

7 types of wives

Which type of woman would You want as your wife? ·          the husband oriented ·          the Children oriented ·          the household oriented ·          The career oriented ·          the entre preneurShip oriented ·          The self Oriented ·          the Society oriented   My startling finding is t hat  a woman will have one of the above Centres …

Are the days of struggle over?

For the last five years I have been struggling  everyday to get a day’ s work. that is the downside of freelancing. I am able to live day by day.   Recently a management consulting assignment is engaging me long enough and somehow ore above struggle has temporarly ceased. It is a change. I am…

Work: microcosm of samsara

Do you get a chance to stop living and think?  I have done this so much that now even as i live i can think.  My guru and ex-boss Steve Moris taught me a very important lesson in success: Never get too comfortable.  At first i did not understand.  But i realized this axiom is the…

Visiting an old lady

She is Crossing 100 yrs. She’s seen her husband, brothers’ sisters daughter son-in -law die. I was visiting her today. there is an utter silence of old age. You just have to tune in but it is tough. In such a meeting one must bask in the aura of this person. I was writing this…