On Life/Success

articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions

Looking at life

We all need a time for ourselves.  However most people get it in the wrong order.  Myself I did it the other way round. I never had a permanent hand writing.  One month I would be using one style of handwriting and in another month it would change. I was always searching for my identity. …

The inner vacation

I had been so busy last year.  I took a break meaning I let go many projects pass.  I could have seen it as losing income but i saw it as spending that equivalent of money on my own spirit, rejuveneration. It was like I spent the money that I could have earned in an…

Every action have consequences : thats the secret understanding

Usually people learn when it’s too late. There are pros and cons to this approach but my view is that one was to be aware. We can’t allow ourselves to be reckless. Every action had a consequence. The fool thinks they don’t exist like the drug addict, sex offender or even the corrupt bureaucrat or…

Casanova or Beloved Father

At one point in life we have to make choices.  As I wake, my 4 year old son is next to me.  Little is said about fathers and the choices they make.  People say mothers have made lots of sacrifice for children.  But the father’s contribution also isn’t less speaking in terms of the choices he…

Limitation and potential

At one point does one come to accept one’s limitations and be open to one’s potential?  Both are very contradictory to one another.  Let me enlighten you in a different way. When does a young person taught that he could be next Bill Gates, that he too could live a swank’s lifestyle, that he could…

When love returned

Some time back I had written an article called “Waiting for love to return”.  I was right and it returned.  I was also right in the strategy I used.  My conclusion thus is that happiness is as much a strategic exercise as business success. My strategy for happiness used the following components: 1. conscious and…

Increasing mind efficiency

What do you see when close your eyes in the middle of the day? Most people see too many jumbled up things that prevents them from answering promptly. Other people aren’t used to zooming in to thoughts like we would on our digital cameras. Still others cannot be honest to themselves enough to admit what…

Dreamteam

I realise I am incomplete to fulfill the special purpose of my own life. So I have to associate with other people. In business its called partnership. It can also be called a team. Three people investing in a business can.t be called a team, there are partners. For the past 38 years I thought…

My new avatar

I’m free after a long time. I was busy in making my client ceo’s vision into a reality. As I reach this point in life I realize I am an undeniable force. All those years of struggle, professional hunger, illusion , delusion  and despair  were a prerequisite to the real role that I would eventually…

When I will be 40…

It Sounds crazy but I am looking forward be 40 in the Coming 2 years like a 16 years old boy to being 18. I feel younger, Stronger more beautiful as I grow older. Something is not right you might say but Can explain. Basically with age and my innate talent in meditation I have…