On Life/Success

articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions

Uproooting inaction

Despite having so much talent inside of you, you are not able to bring them out.  You are unnecessarily nervous. The reason may lie behind fears: 1.  Fear of rejection 2.  Fear of losing 3.  Fear of bad feeling 4.  Fear of making mistakes 5.  Fear of being laughed at 6.  Fear of death of ego/image…

How to develop attitude

Among success trainers/coaches/gurus, we revel in a new psychological-behavioral discovery made in the last 20th Century. Those we made rockets were thankful to the three laws of Newton.  Those who making complex forcasting of various kinds are thankful to mathmaticians such as calculus.  Those fighting crimes are thankful to the two DNA discoverers, Watson and…

Showing the way to success to Safal

At 16 he woke up to the consciousness that there was more to life than just passing exams and then looking for a job.  First he got a job as a RJ and producer where he worked for 2 years and two sharing by youths (one a love problem and the other a child abuse…

A speech that shook the soul of laziness

Today in training i just woke up the soul of the students who had been a lazy as most students are.  i could feel the energy pattern change so drastically: they just had straigher bodies, eyes on the front, and almost resentful of any time they wasted.  It is these moments that you live for…

Choose to be the best in whatever you do

Imagine packing the power of nuclear plant in a mobile. That brings negative image.  Instead imagine packing the power of an elephant in a mouse.  That would be cool, won’t it? Now imagine you could have the charisma of obama, the entrepreneurship of Bill Gates, the spitual acumen of a mahayogi, the sensuality of an…

Laugh your problems away

Do you feel so angry, so irritated, so stressed, so bored, so afraid at times? 1. First acknowledge the feeling.  Don’t deny it.  You are not the dalai lama, remember. 2.  Ask yourself why you should so special that life should not throw at you some of its shit! 3.  Actually enjoy the feeling because…

Fear and Indecision

I consider myself so lucky to be able to live all four-folds of life simultaneously: the brahmacharya, the householder, the career man and the renunciant.  I’ll talk more about them in details in another post.  Now i want to talk about the great leverage this simultaneous 4-fold life style gives to me and if you…

The new truth about getting rich or simply surviving

Did you ever care that your plumber or your electrician , the local laborer, the cabbie , the grocery shop owner and similar people you buy services or products from, survive, have enough to eat or not? You don’t.  you buy what you need from them, and then you don’t want to hear from them. …

A new way to look at career problems

Look at the world around you.  Many of us won’t have to time to do that simple thing.  When i was young and deciding on the  career that i would pursue, i made it a point that my career will allow me time to look both outside and inside myself on a regular basis.  I…

Living with elderly parents

It is an emotionally challenging aspect of life. Many people are unaware of the psychological impact it has both on the elderly parents and the young generation. As a result they take the conflicts that arise either in silence or mental-verbal violence. In silence, the quality of life detoriates, in violence no life remains. The…