On Life/Success
articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions
On Del Carnergi
He taught one simple way to make friends and influence people, be they strangers or known. It is so simple most people ignore it even intentionally. Why are they so stupid? l always wonder. The secret can be picturized using the allegory that in a group photo the person will first try to find oneself….
Source of power
There come times in life where one ends up questioning one’s existence. Who am l? Am I still needed? Is it time to go? What to do next? Do l still have power? All seek power but few know that it’s source are numerous: Money: to have so much of it that one can give…
Recharged
The charging sensation in the body is always something amazing. Most people don’t have it in their control. So what are the factors affecting this good feeling of being recharged and low feeling of not being charged? 1. sleep 2. exercise 3. food 4. Water 5. relationship at work and at home 6. one’s job…
Dealing with Insults with Wisdom
When someone insults you there are just three possible reactions but many ways to reach any decision to which of those reactions to complete. To be forget it To counter To keep grudge But to reach to any one of the there points we go through a process of which many aren’t aware. Who made…
The chaotic tendency of life
No body intends to grow old but all do. By some natural power, the theory of entropy or the theory that everything leads to more chaos, holds true in every aspect of life not only physics but health to relationship. We wish things were not as such but that’s life. Like a garden grows weeds…
Paid for what?
We all want to be ceo. But few know what they are trying to sign up for. My finding is that ceo s are paid to make decisions. How does that sound to be paid millions to sit, think, read, listen and decide? Cool? But surely most are not cut for such a regiment. I…
Thanks to my teachers
I thought I was smart in terms of understand complex concepts, deeper meanings, hidden meanings, implications. I thought it was because of my own effort. But I’m realizing I shouldn’t be so deluded. I didn’t know it then, but the hard nosed teachers who corrected my homeworks, single grammatical error at a time, wrong or…
Being together but lonely
As we grow into marriage, I have realized people need to learn that even though they are physically together, they can be on separate islands of priorities, concepts, values, attitudes, aspirations. The emotional outcome of such pseudo isolation is painful and so paradoxical that most people try one of two things: #Patch up anyhow and…
The importance of reflection
The power of reflection and contemplation is a trademark of the leader amongst men. Whereas all men, will be forced into regret due to a unique mental system called conscience, reflection is self imposed. This is where in lies the essence of spiritual prowess so required to lead. Reflection makes our minds pause. This is…
The theory of mistakes
I urge young people to start involving themselves in project works early in their lives. For no other reasons that they can make mistakes that if made later on would cost them great monetary loss, defamation, and unto others great pain, disillusionment and crisis. I started project work in class one with a school play….