On Life/Success

articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions

Equation of success

People tend to see life as an arithmetic series and a geometric series. In layman’s language it means people think doing more of the same thing that worked in the past will result in more of what is desired. So it follows that at one time since typewriters were more and more in use, producing…

Entering Greatness

I was wondering as I climbing in the virtual realm of my mind while skiing on my elliptical: could I be great one day? could anyone be richer than Bill Gates? could anyone be more respected than Nelson Mendala? could anyone fill gaps like google, face book, twitter? could anyone destroy a style and create…

The chief consultant

I am not trying to boast but I am just analysing myself. I am so different than most people. Over the years I have had the chance to develop such strengths that has put me in the lead among competitors. I was blessed with quality and a correct attitude. Then any opportunity that came turned…

Skill of Influencing

Just imagine if you could influence anybody and any number of people. What would you influence them to do? lsnt it a skill Steve Jobs and Bill Gates had? It seems to be a far fetched skill. But it Is One possessed by many. Facebook founder to mahatma Gandhi all had this skill. But the…

When I was young

What is mundane now, was special then. What is special now, was mundane then. Girls seemed like fairies, few years senior guys seemed like sages, having an ambition seemed like a faiz-accompli. some never grow up. But most do. Now you know healing effect brought by seeing someone of the opposite sex is caused by…

Doubts to destroy

I know so much about life, enough to succeed in fulfilling my purpose but it doesnt stop doubts arising in me. 1. what if the framework of life I am following is wrong? 2. what if my assumptions are wrong? 3. what if then is no god? 4. what if I dont have the capability…

Emotional scars

We all have some scars at the emotional level. But we are unwise and Dont leave them alone to heal. Instead we remember them, replay them and Cause the scars to aggravate. Dealing with scars or wounds is a messy work. if there are some things in that wound needing to be removed then just…

Biofeedback Hrv for better

Using Hrv or Heart Rate Variance technology l am rebuilding my inner peace and calm which are key to happiness and energy. My aura video revealed lots of energy of mine was being diffused from my heart. This built over years of neglect of HRV. Azumio ‘s stress check is a decent and inexpensive tool…

Hope and despair

Life is amazing. One needs to adapt in So many ways. It is just impossible to be rigid. I breath a long one thinking of the day ahead. It is mixed with thoughts of hope and despair. Such is a typical day of mine. I wonder if a day of guaranteed peace can exist in…

Customers and the rise of inhumanity

One of my tasks is to deal with customers who in the course of any transaction lose any hope to be reasoned by normal staffs. They may have lost control of themselves due to fault of negligence of the service provider, their own issues and in most cases nature or factors beyond any body’s control….