New times, new roles: redefining yourself
Even a comparatively poor country like Nepal is getting into the harsh realities of a burstling economy. There was a time when only the poor had to work heavily to be able to survive. Today even the rich and the middle class are working as much as they can. Why? It is no longer because…
Negative Attitude: your own nemesis
You think you have done nothing wrong. You have done the best you could. Because people have been saying you should communicate well, you have tried to be as polite as was possible. Yet you get negative comments or feedbacks from others. From my consulting work, i have come to the conclusion that is phenomenon…
Living in the Borderline
Life of a management consultant is always on the borderline of super business and abosolute inaction. For several months you are so busy, you are there saving companies. Then suddenly you complete your job and it will be a while before you get the next assignment. Office workers and business men relish on the fact…
Exploitation and success
No body wants to be exploited, talent wise (not physically). Yet at the beginning you have to allow yourself to be exploited, otherwise you can never find your talent. However, at one point you must wake up and refuse to be exploited. Name most successful people, they passed through this law of success. Recently i…
The painful part of Management consulting
Today at my consulting assignment at a bank, i felt so strange. As though a daily laborer, working at people’s mercy. It is a tough position to live by. Yet is my way of living always on the emotional edge. Imagine having to change your house everyday, starting a career everyday, having to be prepared…
Bermuda triangle of success
Success is the main aim whenever we are begining. We think success will bring us happiness. So we strive for success. Upto then there is no problem. However life is different once you reach success. Truly life is not based on Newtonian physics. It is truly based on Einstein relativity theory. The laws of life…
One day CEO
When i am conducting any workshop or a counseling session or meeting, i think, behave and communicate as if i was the ceo of the participants. Not in the sense that i show my power to them but in the concern i have that they change into star performers that will work like guided missiles…
Career and spiritual life together
Life is more than just living, eating, sleeping and so on. After realizing this people started to get a job. Then it shifted to a more meaninful usage of workign time and the concept of career was begun. But life is still more than a career and family. It is a mystical quest within. Perplexed…
Politics: the conspiracy theory of mon 4th may 2009
Prachanda resigned from Prime Minister. Now all fear for the worst. However we can look at this incident in a different way. Prachanda was so frustrated with his job. He was surrounded on all side by problems. He made too many enemies. He realized that he could not do anything staying in power. Also he…
Salesmanship: the secret
I had to train college students on salesmanship. But they took it like a normal subject like accounts or anthropology. I wanted them to take it more seriously than that. So i taught them in a different way. I asked them: 1. Did you ever fall in love? 2. Do you wish you could love…