On Life/Success
articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions
The truth behind illusions
Illusions are part of every man s life. Knowing that at any one point when you are sure of something, you could be deluded is wisdom. Madness could then be defined as firmly denying that ones current perception might be a delusion when all the facts point towards that direction. Now the question is: are…
Once upon a time when I used to go dating
It’s been ten years I sat down with a woman and talked on a date. Marriage, child, prestigious career don’t give one such allowances as losing oneself in the communication with a woman on an intimate level. More than my incapacity it is also the great barrier my position holds for anyone even trying to…
Vibration of gratitude: my success
I’ve had so much success that I run away before getting the applauses and standing ovation. It’s almost embarrassing for me. It’s a culture thing. what I prefer is the rhythm of the heart of all the participants. When my show is over the vibration emanating is what I enjoy more than the physical expression…
No one to blame
Life holds lots of bad surprises for us. It can be accidents, failures, bad relationships, diseases. All except death, they are opportunities given by god, the higher self or your own thought generated strongly this life or earlier. Many times we blame the secretary who tells us we are fired. But she is just the…
The wise father
Being a father is a real test of humanity. The ungrateful yet highly dependent baby, takes everything a man has, yet the father gives. My father did the same for me. So did his father and back to the origin of human life. Time, testosterone and money are lost. But relationship with the spouse is…
Where to wake up
Waking up psychologists have been saying is an important process. It’s common sense also. How you start the day, determines strongly how it will unfold. It’s better to sleep in a place where you can wake up in positive attitude enough that place is less luxurious. If you had a quarrel with your spouse st…
The modern husband
As a boss I ask my staff to give total commitment. As a baby , I must have asked my mother to give me total commitment. Today s working mother is doomed to slack on the the marriage front when pulled on both sides. as a husband if I also ask total commitment, the woman…
Attitude: leap from metaphysics to science
Attitude has the limitation it is hard to measure using any modern tools.ideally it would be like scanner that reads the vibrations of the part of consciousness that creates sustains and destroys attitude s. then this sameer would convert these vibrations into words and sentences. this output would be verified with the person and people…
Thinning line between man and woman
Increasingly as I age, the line between sexes is appearing more and more narrowing. I started my adolescence like all, envisioning girls as fairies. Like any normal adults being in relationship with real girls, disillusioned me. Then we all hold the image of woman less intellectually gifted. But I realize after getting my toughest projects…
Humble and young
I thought I was a professional leader because I had lead so many workshops, so people, and many companies. But I realized that life is typo complex to possibly believe you are an expert and stop there. Myself I’ve embraced the challenges. It leaves me always like a boy who just learned to walk. This…