As a boss I ask my staff to give total commitment. As a baby , I must have asked my mother to give me total commitment. Today s working mother is doomed to slack on the the marriage front when pulled on both sides.
as a husband if I also ask total commitment, the woman would break taking down her job, the baby and myself.
in the several years of the career mother hood, a man must choose:
1. Try to get total commitment and eventually kill the goose
2. Give one sided commitment and lose your soul creating
3. Neither give nor ask commitment and wait for the spring to come
The third option is tough. But as a modern man, you will have to make this choice more and more. If not be prepared for destruction ob all fronts.
