On Life/Success
articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions
New times, new roles: redefining yourself
Even a comparatively poor country like Nepal is getting into the harsh realities of a burstling economy. There was a time when only the poor had to work heavily to be able to survive. Today even the rich and the middle class are working as much as they can. Why? It is no longer because…
Negative Attitude: your own nemesis
You think you have done nothing wrong. You have done the best you could. Because people have been saying you should communicate well, you have tried to be as polite as was possible. Yet you get negative comments or feedbacks from others. From my consulting work, i have come to the conclusion that is phenomenon…
Living in the Borderline
Life of a management consultant is always on the borderline of super business and abosolute inaction. For several months you are so busy, you are there saving companies. Then suddenly you complete your job and it will be a while before you get the next assignment. Office workers and business men relish on the fact…
Exploitation and success
No body wants to be exploited, talent wise (not physically). Yet at the beginning you have to allow yourself to be exploited, otherwise you can never find your talent. However, at one point you must wake up and refuse to be exploited. Name most successful people, they passed through this law of success. Recently i…
The painful part of Management consulting
Today at my consulting assignment at a bank, i felt so strange. As though a daily laborer, working at people’s mercy. It is a tough position to live by. Yet is my way of living always on the emotional edge. Imagine having to change your house everyday, starting a career everyday, having to be prepared…
Threat Analysis: hiring a domestic helper
It is not that bad. I’m myself struggling with the reality of having a hire a domestic helper. But I’m not used to it. It is a new thing for me. I’ve tried to avoid thinking about it. But with my baby growing up and needing more assistance, I am compelled to find one. But…
A new look at marriage
Why are relationship complex in west while it is not so volatile in the east? Marriage should be a one way traffic. If there is a way back or out it won’t work out. At the onset of a small issue or engram, it looks for an opportunity to fall apart.