On Life/Success
articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions
Strategic planning exercise
Now that i have chosen to live as a freelancer, i have to design my strategy again. I enjoy most reading , exercising and meditating in my free time. these are inputs to my advanced thinking process. That is currently being used for training and videos. Training is paying but videos are not. But videos…
I shut them down
Finally i gave the order to close down my two companies. It took me 4 months to deliberate on this decisions. It was a tough decision because there were so many emotions attached to it. I hoped to become a billionaire from them. But within a year i realized that I was never going to…
A bad day
It was just a bad day. Nothing good happened. I woke up at 1.30am to pump water into our tank. But it didnt come. I slept at 4am & woke up at 6am. I was planning for a meeting but the client cancelled. The supplier I wanted to promote came up with the laziest prototype….
Trying to understand in vain
I like watching American Sitcoms as opposed to Indian soap operas. I didn’t realize why. But today I found out. American soap operas are about friends, while Indian soap operas. In nepal the world revolves around families like in India, although not to such an extent. So watching indian serials, it is not something unusual….
Friendship: my failure
I feel sorry of few things in my life. Among them is that I could not be a friend to any body. I just loved to be with myself too much to need any friend. Then may be there was my mother who filled this vacuum if there was any. Then came my wife. Then…
My flow
I realise that I love my work of being a trainer and consulting people. It is like my craft. I feel zen, the flow and in the zone when I do these activities. What totally kills my zen is making phone calls, organizing , making decisions, reading legal documents, replying to emails, doing PR work,…
Blissful times
Will I ever make it? Make it what? Life is just so boring a few days since. And I am enjoying this boredom because I know it is a sign of success. Just a few months ago, i could not afford to feel bored. I always had to be alert because if not I might…
One day…
Sitting this morning and reading the news of movers and shakers, at 45, I feel a bit left behind. A kind of frustration tries to fill me. Am I happy with what I have become? could I have become more? is this all? What I know is that I am happy with my life. Of…
Will I make money as a writer?
I stay as far as I can from these kinds of books. The title invokes in me images of a confused woman and her quest to be liberated. God! Is that all there is : confused women? However, I stumbled a another book by the same author in the non-fiction series that was about creativity….
My story of complex choices
At times I wonder if i am not wasting my life away. with my intellect and creativity and leadership power, i could have done so much more like continuing with a company and make it as big as it could get. But i would have to team up with greedy and unethical people. It would…
