On Life/Success
articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions
New career, new life
Since the last few weeks I enjoyed the fruits of my new career: unadultered free time. I work a few days a month and it is more than enough. Anything more, is really more. Like enuchs in the court of Chinese emperors who castrate themselves to become high officials at their court, I forsook any…
My marketing strategy
Finally I designed a marketing strategy that is sustainable. For years I struggled to find it. I would do some marketing & I’d get so much work I’d stop any form of marketing. Then I’d be out of work & I’d do marketing again & I’d get work. This cycle continued & will continue unless…
My 3 life policies
When I was 16, something wrote itself on a paper: no ownership no title no seat It didnt make much sense to me then. But it was the answer to the question: how am I going to make a living & be rich. I stuck to the plan until at 42 I couldn’t stop to…
Talking about stategy
Strange new type of fear opened up in my dreams yesterday. It was about not being willing to face a problem or a dark secret or an issue. I pondered the whole day on what that issue or those issues could be. On the same day I had planned to go & pay my taxes…
Next stage of my career
So I cut all the ties to the possibilities that i could become an entrepreneur. This desire existed from my past life because I owed it to someone. I tried, I failed and I dropped it and that someone is proud of me and happy now. But now I must go on with my career…
My 5 friends
I don’t like to talk about my problems with anyone not because I don’t like them, or even that I think no one can help me or that they will judge me; instead it is because I always end up solving their problems. If i was working in an office, i would be going to…
Simple tough question
So what do I offer as a trainer, coach, management consultant and writer? So far I offered whatever others asked me to and they did so based on market demand. It is such a simple question, yet despite trying since 2 weeks I am unable to answer it. Even now as i try to write…
Confused again but …
So what do I want in life? Again at 45, i don’t know. I know what i don’t want though: not to be too busy working not to have nothing to do not to have enough money not to have so much money i can’t manage not to be so famous I can’t walk in…
Married life
Yesterday was a fine day until my wife bursts into one of her fits. that is what being married is about: tolerating one another without parole. There is a good purpose of that arrangement I guess. however one needs to be able to think very positively. It is the same in any relationships. In the…
Dropping the ideas
It has been a long break this month. i had forgotten that just 4 months ago i was wanting to become a billionaire with an idea like Uber or airbnb. then I read a book and i saw that it was no way the life that i wanted to live at all. After reaching the…