Goodness: genuine or coerced?
Man is essentially good, I observe. It would be so easy to create havoc. While a car is speeding, a walker could feign crossing. That would cause the car to brake abruptly creating accidents. But people don’t go on teasing speeding cars, although it would be so easy. But more than goodness it must be…
Every action have consequences : thats the secret understanding
Usually people learn when it’s too late. There are pros and cons to this approach but my view is that one was to be aware. We can’t allow ourselves to be reckless. Every action had a consequence. The fool thinks they don’t exist like the drug addict, sex offender or even the corrupt bureaucrat or…
Internet compared to boys
Don’t lie. All boys were fascinated by that organ. That made us boys and others girls. Some of us misused it, some overused it, some refrained. Then time came when we matured and realized that the power of this organ was if we could transform it into pursuits in sports, intellect, spiritual, travelling, creation, business,…
Casanova or Beloved Father
At one point in life we have to make choices. As I wake, my 4 year old son is next to me. Little is said about fathers and the choices they make. People say mothers have made lots of sacrifice for children. But the father’s contribution also isn’t less speaking in terms of the choices he…
Dualities of conflict
Is conflict : good or bad desirable or undesirable unavoidable or avoidable Should the objective of conflict be: to end or to start for a purposeful end or just to dominate to vent off anger or to dissolve anger Conflict is a such a thing many of us are in dilemma about. Thumb rules are:…
Limitation and potential
At one point does one come to accept one’s limitations and be open to one’s potential? Both are very contradictory to one another. Let me enlighten you in a different way. When does a young person taught that he could be next Bill Gates, that he too could live a swank’s lifestyle, that he could…
Building a total ERP
It has been a stressful day. Working with this client has been the greatest challenge ever for me. I always wanted to be an engineer when i was kid. As i grew i drew design of flying cars. Then I realized that machines were not for me. But i was not disullioned by machines totally…
When love returned
Some time back I had written an article called “Waiting for love to return”. I was right and it returned. I was also right in the strategy I used. My conclusion thus is that happiness is as much a strategic exercise as business success. My strategy for happiness used the following components: 1. conscious and…
Man woman thing
Man wants a certain thing and women another thing . Man wants in sequence : Sex Food ego boosting Woman wants in sequence : Security Stability Free money Both as human beings want in sequence : Appreciation Time Support in times of need If you can he aware Of this then you…
Increasing mind efficiency
What do you see when close your eyes in the middle of the day? Most people see too many jumbled up things that prevents them from answering promptly. Other people aren’t used to zooming in to thoughts like we would on our digital cameras. Still others cannot be honest to themselves enough to admit what…