Where to wake up
Waking up psychologists have been saying is an important process. It’s common sense also. How you start the day, determines strongly how it will unfold. It’s better to sleep in a place where you can wake up in positive attitude enough that place is less luxurious. If you had a quarrel with your spouse st…
Hey pitbull
When I watch clips of pitbull, sean paul and the like, I’m transported to a world I’ll never live and they too could never have what life I have. Their world as portrayed is one of parties, sexy girls, alcohol, freedom. All men have that fantasy. having freedom, money, chicks, fame, adoration, talent, body. And…
The modern husband
As a boss I ask my staff to give total commitment. As a baby , I must have asked my mother to give me total commitment. Today s working mother is doomed to slack on the the marriage front when pulled on both sides. as a husband if I also ask total commitment, the woman…
The System thinker and The expert
Using technology we can make life so easier. You need two things to make systems that make life easier: 1. The system thinker and his tools (excel, policies, software) 2. The expert Then the system analyst models the work of the expert into procedures of which some will be done by machines, electrical circuits, electronic…
Attitude: leap from metaphysics to science
Attitude has the limitation it is hard to measure using any modern tools.ideally it would be like scanner that reads the vibrations of the part of consciousness that creates sustains and destroys attitude s. then this sameer would convert these vibrations into words and sentences. this output would be verified with the person and people…
The ears vs the eyes
I just realized that throughout the waking hours I use my eyes extensively from driving to working on my computer, from looking at the beauty of the opposite sex to reading books and reports. even as I write I’m reading using my eyes. I am a good listener and grasp information through the ear very…
Thinning line between man and woman
Increasingly as I age, the line between sexes is appearing more and more narrowing. I started my adolescence like all, envisioning girls as fairies. Like any normal adults being in relationship with real girls, disillusioned me. Then we all hold the image of woman less intellectually gifted. But I realize after getting my toughest projects…
Office and home: strategies
It’s the limitation of the untrained mind to think that a strategy to make success at work will work at home too or vice versa. As a strategic level consultant, I realize such a proposition is very naive because even strategies differ in one work place to another and in one home to another. Many…
Suddenly and then…
Suddenly it became all clear. But it was not a sudden or one time effort. It was more like how a fraction of weight tilts the balance. the last fragment may get the credit but the real impact was given by earlier weights added. Vision is very much like that. Also it’s like a cloud…
Training: what’s the impact?
I’ve trained more than ten thousand people in life, success, management, attitude. But all the while I was asking myself, how did it impact their lives? I had a working philosophy that since the same clients kept inviting me and paying me more every year for the same amount of time, then I must be…