My 5 friends

March 17, 2019
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I don’t like to talk about my problems with anyone not because I don’t like them, or even that I think no one can help me or that they will judge me; instead it is because I always end up solving their problems. If i was working in an office, i would be going to lunch with a colleague and sharing my problems; but i made sure that would not happen with the choice of my career as a freelancer.

To me the best experience of talking my problem out is writing. Now I write on this blog. Before the internet, I used to write on diaries. Still there are very private problems like the ones dealing with family that shouldn’t be put on public sites, and i used evernote for these. But still I solve all my problems by writing.

In writing I come in contact with the best possible friends: my self and others inside of me.

For big problems writing won’t do because I don’t know the answer. So I read books. My self at least knows which books has the answer so I am guided to read them.

Still bigger problems, books can’t answer and a tragic accident, a mishap, a negative unexpected event, provide the conclusive answer.

I guess it happens to everyone because they all fall prey to accidents and negative events, but they are not able to read them and as a result a great message goes unread, unknown and problems remain unsolved.

Then there are problems are really complex and I get the answers in form of dreams. Consecutive dreams are needed sometimes to make me understand.

So these processes:

  • writing
  • books
  • events
  • dreams

have solved all my problems.

As a result i don’t rely on friends, astrologers and even consultants.

But there is still another process I use to solve bigger eternal problems and they are my spiritual guides, mentors, masters and friends. I will write more in another blog.

they basically alter my thinking, emotions, nervous system, karma directly through touch, then they simply influence others to give me what I need to solve my problems so that I can go on with my eternal work, again more about it another blog.