Listening to music, reading a book are very intimate interactions between one and the creators. To one who is untrained it is just that listening and reading .
I was listening to katy Perry. I allowed the music to get inside me. I was sensing the attitude in her voice like being caressed by a divine female presence. Added the sometimes -good lyrics it felt like a perfect ritual Of love making. Only in this ritual there is no Climax always a rising.
Well in order to experience this kind of intimacy one must either be a virgin or a renunciant celibate because the art I am talking about is highly subtle , so much that sex comes on the way.