On Life/Success
articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions
A deep question
I finished the Sambhav report. I wrote it like a book starting from table of contents as I had envisioned 2 years back. After writing it I felt elated because I realized I could write great books. However, I also realize that I have promised myself not to write for free anymore. this time this…
the 3 modes of luxury
It is raining heavily as I write now. Luxury doesn’t cost a billion dollars or even a million. From my windows I admire the scene: trees and houses drenched in rain. If I lived near the sea, I would see the sea. What is the difference. However luxury is a state of mind. Even as…
Questions answered
I had a continuous dilemma about a relationship with a client: to demand for a raise and if not provided quit. This question did not have an answer till I answered it today myself accidently. “Don’t bother because it is a life-long relationship and I need some of them. Let them pay as much as…
Re-discovering luxury
The last week was packed: 6 continous training days. At a point prior to that I was bored by my non-working routine that is supposed to be the most luxurious and privileged life for which I have worked so hard. Then this busy period came: i had to give up swimming, napping and meditation in…
A new Me
Something liberating is occuring in me after the wart on my face was removed. Warts represent a period of frustration in a past time. In my case I think it started during or after my days in acetravels. Prior I was a happy go lucky type. After Ace, I became rigid, I had to: I…
I play my own game
I am free to write on my blog after a long time. I was busy working, then being sick , then solving home issues. Last week I felt a bit depressed when I saw two contemporaries publishing a magazine and the other going public. But I soon accepted that I am not playing their games….
Real Luxury in the mind
Lately I am feeling an indomitable sense of dignity and fearlessless. Worries, pettiness, over sentitiveness were still disturbing me despite my exalted state. After a book on happiness, I was able to find the cause. Cortisol is built up in high amount around a negative thought because of evolution. In the earlier days it was…
Rigid but flexible
I am finding a different kind of peace lately. It is coming out of flexibity. I am no more rigid, not that I was so rigid. But now I have mastered an art of being rigid with my goal but being flexible with the process. I guess is just needed to take time. I have…
New role
It is my first day as a counselor at a new office with nothing to do. This is the normal life for most adults in the first hours of work. It was even the same for me when I was at various organisations. I guess I lost touch since it has been so long ago….
new avatar
I had cortisol filled evening yesterday after my son said that people humilated me because i behaved childishly. This was the last straw in a series of humiliation from a series of people for being friendly, opening debate and building a positive environment. They became so confident out of my own expense that now they…