i am just amazed at how i can get negative at times. it is just so easy to be angry, envious, hateful, despiteful, revengeful and all the other plethora of negative emotions. Despite knowing it is wrong, fruitless and baseless, these negative perception of facts of the past, don’t stop until we are able to argue and heal ourselves out of them.
what we have to remember is that the discomfort, unhappiness we are facing today due to some happenings that seem to have occured just now or lately, had its seeds planted much long ago: maybe years, or decades, but most likely many lifetimes. That is the challenge in overcoming negativity. People are not trained to think this far back in time. But without doing so, either negativity will persist or at most it will covered up with layers of fake positivity.
To be happy is thus a very serious business. It is easy to run a mulit-billion organziation even as opposed to be happy because the factors to be considered are so subtle, and extended to many lifetimes in the later case, whereas in the former case the factors are measurable by many sources and extend mostly in a foreseeable future.
it is easy to blame the other party but if was effective then such people would never grow old and miserly.
We must be able face the monster of negativity eye to eye without blinking and then only can we we tame it.
