Top Gun, once upon a time
Upon starting the new consulting contract with this huge group, I am having flashbacks of my heydays as the topgun of management consulting in this tiny city of kathmandu. I recall mainly this insurance company. I think i screwed up and in hindsight, I think I should have either quit or operated slower. but the…
Gay strategy: Pro Bono
I am having a new kind of thought today. May be is the gay dream I had. Dreams are symbolic. Gay means something opposite, radically different but little understood. After so many clients whom I forgave for non payment, i am wondering why bother and why not provide free training, coaching , consulting to organizations…
Start from failure
I started this new consulting project with a big group of companies. After 20 years of working as a management consultant from being and intern to being a ceo coach, I look back at many of my failures in judgements and more important my ignorance. I was too confident I knew when I should have…
Ambiguities
I am in my new job of counselor for a college. Despite ambiguities in my payment, I have become convinced that this is a very important investment in my career. Ambiguities are a part of life of someone who wants to find perfect happiness. Some call it risk. Nothing risked nothing gained. Will I quit…
Freedom and marriage
I have been married for now 15 years. In my past lives I have run away from marriage believing the concept that marriage is binding. However it was all a lie. At least it is not true in today’s modern age if you give your wife independence and authority. this sword has two sides. One…
criticising
every time you are criticized you feel bad. But then that is where the similarity with all ends. some react aggressively some passively some are able to ignore it it is amazing why people criticize others. but it does some good: some people realize and change some people find a different perspective to themselves some…
No Liability
I thought a lot about the pains I felt about work. then I realized it was all fun like a hobby only if i didn’t take it too seriously as if my life depended on it. I have no liabilities and only assets. Those I don’t want to pursue like recievables I can forgive and…
Fixed Cost of success
After the corona lockdowns I got very busy and with it come the expected new problems of collecting payments. It is natural. We wish it didn’t occur but that is the hidden cost of doing business. I have to give discounts, give extended credit and sometimes risk not getting paid. It just seems like I…
Andrenaline: my theory
Yesterday I saw 3 dreams of flying at will. It had been a long time. The night I was filled with andrenaline. Before I did not know what was the cause of this inner hear, excitedment and inabilibity to sleep. The first time I encountered it big time was the day of my first workshop…
Calmer
My mind is getting slower and calmer as my career is taking the new direction I had been planning as compared with my first half. So basically I laying the foundation of my career for 50 to 60 years. I had plenty of time to prepare with 3 years of corona.