Image of women
One of my objective in life since youth was to understand the attraction of men to women. It’s like all boys you would say but in my case it was a different twist. I wanted to enjoy less women and more figure out what this mystery of attraction was all about. Truly I can imagine…
Spiritual drought
We are living in times of very low tolerance, respect and acceptance. That’s probably due to the fact that most people have several lives running simultaneously like marriage, career, children, social. All these don’t go together for everyone. When all have one common world and other conflicting ones, many bad emotions come into existence. This…
At the door of heaven
Which is courage in a terminal disease case? Hanging on to the pain of life or embracing the nothingness of death? It’s a moral question that I can’t resolve. But then the one who is sick should desire to be courageous. If that is not the case and he just doesn’t want to die or…
Birthday cakes and retention scheme
What’s it with men that they don’t value either their own birthdays or that of others? But women love birthdays : theirs own or that of others. I can’t understand their behaviors and I’m sure they must think men are life less. It’s a duality that won’t go away any time soon. But if you…
Humble and young
I thought I was a professional leader because I had lead so many workshops, so people, and many companies. But I realized that life is typo complex to possibly believe you are an expert and stop there. Myself I’ve embraced the challenges. It leaves me always like a boy who just learned to walk. This…
Stop thinking you are the only righteous one
Before cursing and never forgiving other people, ask yourself, “am I free of sin”? I was angry at someone for talking loudly at me. I was not willing to forgive thinking may be I would never do such a thing. In short there could be no one as righteous as i. Then the next day,…
I don’t wanna be an ass hole
Ok I know it’s a bad word I used. Forgive me if it offended you or made your concept of who this writer is, distorted. But I had to touch this issue and that is the language we use. At work you have people around you who think they can do anything hurtful and get…
Looks and attitude
Does a person who looks friendly have to end up being really friendly? Does a person who looks rude have to end up being really rude? When I was young, I tried to figure out this myth. My finding was that it is not necessarily true. the biggest block is our own biased judgment. I…
Looking at life
We all need a time for ourselves. However most people get it in the wrong order. Myself I did it the other way round. I never had a permanent hand writing. One month I would be using one style of handwriting and in another month it would change. I was always searching for my identity. …
The inner vacation
I had been so busy last year. I took a break meaning I let go many projects pass. I could have seen it as losing income but i saw it as spending that equivalent of money on my own spirit, rejuveneration. It was like I spent the money that I could have earned in an…