On Life/Success

articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions

Refreshed

This trip is like none ever. Oh how much I needed break from who I was: the responsible son, husband, father, professional. Today due to unforseen circumstances it is nepal bandha, and I am out of my town. Nothing to do. Except revel in my thoughts. Thoughts of detachment. Detachment is so important to me….

What if ?

At times when i listen to the stories of entrepreneurs in the USA, i ask myself: what if i was born there or at least what if i had migrated there? Definitely i never would have settled for an ordinary job. I would have been different and I would have met someone or some people,…

I , the beggar

In many of dreams i see myself in Singapore, where I basically begged my career up and I became what I am because of this shameless intrusion in the lives of my benefactors. There was no way I could be what I am without those years in singapore. If i had not gone there and…

Aspiring writer

At times I wonder: only if i would be paid for my writings! Isn’t it just amazing! I have written almost 300 pages of book and I got not a single cent. I feel sad at times. What would be full time job for anyone, I get nothing. Yet I can’t stop, mainly because it…

Premonitions

I didn’t understand it at that time. I thought it was the last episode, but now i realize it was trailer of my upcoming life. I am talking about the my last 3 months in singapore. I lived life without responsibilty, totally free, travelling, swimming, losing weight, enjoyin, reflecting. I thought I would never be…

An unsought world

I was in a meeting today with some entrepreneurs. I realized how happy I am not be an investor or entrepreneur. After my consulting session I listened to their conversations and it was a like an endless mind maze, one point leading to another, going hopelessly no where. It is as if there thoughts were…

Inner conflict of an enlightened one

My life is just different. As I watch out into the trees out of my office, after a 2 hours nap in my recliner, having had tea and cookies , fixed the water pump, waiting to go swimming after my sandwich, there is nothing I want more. I have just achieved the ultimate goals of…

Power of the subconscious mind

My mind is extremely calm now despite the lack of paid work opportunities. It just seems the conscious mind is cacooned in the sub-conscious mind. In dreams i see every indication of a prosperous career ahead although i am not getting enough calls and closed deals yet. At the unconscious level that is the dreamless…

Crossroad of life

I am again at a new crossroad in my life. Believe it or not but I have a very short fate line that breaks at around 42. It doesn’t mean I am unlucky but that my official career is short. I achieved a lot in a short time. Also it means that there are many…

new revenue model

If i get paid in 2 new kinds of consulting work I am doing , then this will open up a totally new area of revenue that is so compatible to my style. I will set a price for a measurable outcome that can not be done without me. once it is achieved , the…