On Life/Success

articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions

Transit point

I am at that transitionary phase of life where I don’t want to keep doing the same routine but also don’t want a new routine. For all my life, such decisions were never mine to initiate, process & take. Although I was the driver, something else drove me. If it was not so I could…

A lazy morning

As I was returning from my morning jog, I saw my son go to school. He didn’t see me. I thought that I made a mistake in my past lives to run away from them. Anyways in this life I’m doing what is right. I have no class today. It is almost like im on…

my forgotten spot

After many months, almost a year, I am writing from the balcony. I had forgotten the importance of this spot in my reflection process. Then when I was given the suite at the hotel in Nagar kot, one spot intrigued me. It was a half bed with a window showing the valley below & the…

which way next?

So I’ve arrived at the source of where the blessings have been coming from. This night has been a surprise as I was given the suite room. I realize it is just a compact version of my home. But more pressing has been the impeding change that I am sensing. It is not that I…

Being a husband

I have been through a lot of experiences good and bad as a husband. It is one of the hardest roles to play in life. In my past lives I must have run away from playing this role. But in this life I have embraced it fully. It is a thankless job. But that doesn’t…

Pondering on life

I am going to 46 in two months. My dreams are telling me amazing things are awaiting me in spiritual as well as material terms, my numerology year is 1, I have got many good leads, it has been lots of work I have put. I wonder what direction my life will take. I am…

walking straight

Walking with a straight back is not natural to me. all my life i believe i have had a slight slouch. then when I play basketball my back becomes straight like a stick and it hurts to slouch. It is also then I realize i had earlier been slouching. it feels so great to walk…

a glimpse into the future

in 2003-04, I lived a life of freedom, not working for 3 months in the most expensive city of the world. I don’t know i just needed to taste the luxury of free time. It was swimming, traveling the whole day. I liked it. then it became too much as it should have. But this…

No anxiety

The anxiety I used to face about my future career prospect is dissolving slowly. It is almost absent. After the 18th July 2019, enlightenment day, I just know my path in the future. I also know that the set back I faced was necessary and it is my foundation. Now even i am very busy…

Not trapped

I guess the problem with the world is that they have not read or understood the teaching of the Bhagvad Gita. The people are so set to get trapped. It just seems they can’t stand the be free. Whether they are rich or not, it doesn’t matter. The poors have an excuse to get trapped:…