Dealing with Insults with Wisdom
When someone insults you there are just three possible reactions but many ways to reach any decision to which of those reactions to complete. To be forget it To counter To keep grudge But to reach to any one of the there points we go through a process of which many aren’t aware. Who made…
Meditation in the 21st century
I did a full blood test recently and my cholesterol was on border line. I don’t enjoy oily food, I don’t smoke or drink, I even exercise daily. I wondered how. Well I need to excercise more thanks to modern diet. I enjoy meditation and that usually means starting in one place but I devised…
The chaotic tendency of life
No body intends to grow old but all do. By some natural power, the theory of entropy or the theory that everything leads to more chaos, holds true in every aspect of life not only physics but health to relationship. We wish things were not as such but that’s life. Like a garden grows weeds…
Truly Alone
It is strange to be at this phase of life where there is total disillusionment. you just experience everything as a compulsion. It makes you feel so alone. you can’t confide to anybody because they have time for you or you done things that they percieve as transgression. in this way they find an excuse…
Too old and Too young
It was a good day until i received negative feedback about one of my actions which i knew had the potential of such. I wasn’t surprised about the negative but i was affected. What is it with me? Have I become too old to work with customers? I’ve handled so much difficult situations in my…
The future of strategic planning
Faced with a strategic level challenge, with millions at stake, the ceo needs to devise a strategy. I’m the chief consultant and I’m baffled. Not at the challenge but at the lack of framework to design the strategy. it’s amazing how people have been making strategies since ages without actually having a framework. How can…
Paid for what?
We all want to be ceo. But few know what they are trying to sign up for. My finding is that ceo s are paid to make decisions. How does that sound to be paid millions to sit, think, read, listen and decide? Cool? But surely most are not cut for such a regiment. I…
Thanks to my teachers
I thought I was smart in terms of understand complex concepts, deeper meanings, hidden meanings, implications. I thought it was because of my own effort. But I’m realizing I shouldn’t be so deluded. I didn’t know it then, but the hard nosed teachers who corrected my homeworks, single grammatical error at a time, wrong or…
Being together but lonely
As we grow into marriage, I have realized people need to learn that even though they are physically together, they can be on separate islands of priorities, concepts, values, attitudes, aspirations. The emotional outcome of such pseudo isolation is painful and so paradoxical that most people try one of two things: #Patch up anyhow and…
The importance of reflection
The power of reflection and contemplation is a trademark of the leader amongst men. Whereas all men, will be forced into regret due to a unique mental system called conscience, reflection is self imposed. This is where in lies the essence of spiritual prowess so required to lead. Reflection makes our minds pause. This is…