Control over life
For those of us who are working on unchartered grounds having a sense of control over life is a luxury. But if one works hard enough and wisely enough factors beyond one’s control begin to make sense, become measurable and eventually these factors can be manipulated to bring desired result. At that time it’s an…
A new myth, a correct myth
Taking my spiritual life together with my material life, I realize how fortunate I am compared to people who are illusioned into thinking wearing attire of mythical yogis and speaking vocabulary of scriptures, will propel them to mass following in the 21st century. Today the world is divided like never before in thought and belief….
Morning blues
l don’t know if it happens to you also but most of my mornings as soon as I wake up, I have to wage a battle inside me to overcome or subdue the negative thoughts that come. Mostly they are themed,”You can’t do it.” Using various methods I eventually succeed.
Asaram Bapu: something is not right
l grew up watching the enlightening discourses of asaram bapu. Then l grew tired of hearing the same logics and l stopped listening to him. He comes on TV and l see he had lost his initial charm. l guessed it was the old age. Then came one scandal after the other. l still refused…
Customers and the rise of inhumanity
One of my tasks is to deal with customers who in the course of any transaction lose any hope to be reasoned by normal staffs. They may have lost control of themselves due to fault of negligence of the service provider, their own issues and in most cases nature or factors beyond any body’s control….
On Del Carnergi
He taught one simple way to make friends and influence people, be they strangers or known. It is so simple most people ignore it even intentionally. Why are they so stupid? l always wonder. The secret can be picturized using the allegory that in a group photo the person will first try to find oneself….
Beyond psychology
Is it easy to understand people? It is possible but it takes a lifelong period for learning about psychology. But if one wants to ever be happy its a journey one must take. Whether you must try to make sense of your spouse’s behaviour or that of your parents or children or boss, knowledge of…
Doubts
I made peace with myself after many days. I was struggling with doubts inside myself about what I was doing and was it good or bad. I’m coming to an end of my job. l found the answer to many questions in my long meditation today. Such doubts come regularly in one’s life. Then like…
Source of power
There come times in life where one ends up questioning one’s existence. Who am l? Am I still needed? Is it time to go? What to do next? Do l still have power? All seek power but few know that it’s source are numerous: Money: to have so much of it that one can give…
Why do people choose to be unhappy?
As a meditator and inner peace person, and a successful teacher I always thought it was possible to change anyone. slowly as l get older I realize not all people will choose the path of inner peace. Instead they prefer to be Right, rich and powerful at any cost. l fail to understand their choice…