I have been married for now 15 years. In my past lives I have run away from marriage believing the concept that marriage is binding. However it was all a lie. At least it is not true in today’s modern age if you give your wife independence and authority. this sword has two sides. One side it gives you freedom and on the other side it estranges you. Basically you are unbound emotionally but at the same time things work out perfect.
Men want to dominate their wives and as as result they bind themselves.
The cost of giving freedom to your wife, is high in terms of ego. to enjoy being unbound during marriage you must give freedom to your wife and the price to pay is that she will use that freedom in ways you don’t like and expect, although not necessarily immorally but within moral boundaries. That must be tolerated, if not you will lose your own freedom.
