Today I want to write on love or relationship between a boy and a girl. Before I was not evolved enough to understand this attraction. But now I can look at it from a detached point of view like a camera man would observe wild beasts in the jungle interact.
Apparently this attraction is genetic and neural. In some cases the attraction is between boy to boy and girl to girl because again of genes and neural characteristics. This is how far science has come.
In a normal relationship, when a boy sees an attractive girl his pituary gland contracts and produces androgen, and testesterone. This in turn will seek to be released. Dopamine will be produced thus now the boy is playing the game of courtship to release the testesterone. He will court one girl, will get rejected, seek more dopamine, try again and again. Then eventually this will produce cortisol making him miserable. Then if he finds a girl who too is attracted to him, he will have a problem because her testesterone is low and esterogen isn’t seeking release. Instead she is seeking oxytocin but failure to get that caused cortisol production in her too. So they will meet mid way and have a romance fulfiling the oxytocin need of both. they will have endorphin released too making them feel like heaven.
however both have dopamine running in them, and they will engage in sex thus allowing release of testesterone and esterogene. Now they feel full rush of endorphin, 7th cloud.
however inside the boy the testerone release produces esteregene and vice versa in woman.
the ultimate goal of yoga is thus to reach the permanent balance of testesteron and esterogene.
