On Life/Success

articles about how to deal with relationships at home: spouse, parents and children successfully. Also articles about how to come out of depressions, stresses, worries, boredom, bad memories and similar negative emotions

2 new missions

The idea of performance coaching as a new product to sell is a good one. After Dashain I will try to sell it using the best possible channels. So now I have 2 new projects on my hands: the books performance coaching This should add a sense of mission to my life.

Book idea: closer to reality

The idea of writing a book is growing stronger and the direction seems so much clearer. I finally found a book from a literary agent. I realize it is like all my presumptions are shattered. Reading this book is for me as good as being coached. It was what i needed. I realize I have…

Finally, I see books written by me

Something in me is shifting. This holiday season, as usual there will not be much work. After the chat with that person, I really felt a ‘tsunami in me’ was calmed. It is karma. In the past when the internet was not available, people would have to do really silly and risky things to attain…

Shift fundamental

Lately I am feeling different at a very fundamental level. I have stopped being concerned, worried &anxious that I will not be able to share my knowledge before dying. I now feel that even in such an eventuality it would not matter. I will be able to take the essence of most of my knowledge…

A deep question

I finished the Sambhav report. I wrote it like a book starting from table of contents as I had envisioned 2 years back. After writing it I felt elated because I realized I could write great books. However, I also realize that I have promised myself not to write for free anymore. this time this…

the 3 modes of luxury

It is raining heavily as I write now. Luxury doesn’t cost a billion dollars or even a million. From my windows I admire the scene: trees and houses drenched in rain. If I lived near the sea, I would see the sea. What is the difference. However luxury is a state of mind. Even as…

Questions answered

I had a continuous dilemma about a relationship with a client: to demand for a raise and if not provided quit. This question did not have an answer till I answered it today myself accidently. “Don’t bother because it is a life-long relationship and I need some of them. Let them pay as much as…

Re-discovering luxury

The last week was packed: 6 continous training days. At a point prior to that I was bored by my non-working routine that is supposed to be the most luxurious and privileged life for which I have worked so hard. Then this busy period came: i had to give up swimming, napping and meditation in…

A new Me

Something liberating is occuring in me after the wart on my face was removed. Warts represent a period of frustration in a past time. In my case I think it started during or after my days in acetravels. Prior I was a happy go lucky type. After Ace, I became rigid, I had to: I…

I play my own game

I am free to write on my blog after a long time. I was busy working, then being sick , then solving home issues. Last week I felt a bit depressed when I saw two contemporaries publishing a magazine and the other going public. But I soon accepted that I am not playing their games….