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Rigid but flexible

Thursday, May 12, 2022

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I am finding a different kind of peace lately. It is coming out of flexibity. I am no more rigid, not that I was so rigid. But now I have mastered an art of being rigid with my goal but being flexible with the process. I guess is just needed to take time. I have […]

new avatar

Sunday, May 1, 2022

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I had cortisol filled evening yesterday after my son said that people humilated me because i behaved childishly. This was the last straw in a series of humiliation from a series of people for being friendly, opening debate and building a positive environment. They became so confident out of my own expense that now they […]


Friday, April 29, 2022

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I am in my new job of counselor for a college. Despite ambiguities in my payment, I have become convinced that this is a very important investment in my career. Ambiguities are a part of life of someone who wants to find perfect happiness. Some call it risk. Nothing risked nothing gained. Will I quit […]

Freedom and marriage

Wednesday, April 27, 2022

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I have been married for now 15 years. In my past lives I have run away from marriage believing the concept that marriage is binding. However it was all a lie. At least it is not true in today’s modern age if you give your wife independence and authority. this sword has two sides. One […]


Wednesday, April 27, 2022

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every time you are criticized you feel bad. But then that is where the similarity with all ends. some react aggressively some passively some are able to ignore it it is amazing why people criticize others. but it does some good: some people realize and change some people find a different perspective to themselves some […]

No Liability

Tuesday, April 26, 2022

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I thought a lot about the pains I felt about work. then I realized it was all fun like a hobby only if i didn’t take it too seriously as if my life depended on it. I have no liabilities and only assets. Those I don’t want to pursue like recievables I can forgive and […]

Fixed Cost of success

Sunday, April 24, 2022

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After the corona lockdowns I got very busy and with it come the expected new problems of collecting payments. It is natural. We wish it didn’t occur but that is the hidden cost of doing business. I have to give discounts, give extended credit and sometimes risk not getting paid. It just seems like I […]


Tuesday, April 19, 2022

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My mind is getting slower and calmer as my career is taking the new direction I had been planning as compared with my first half. So basically I laying the foundation of my career for 50 to 60 years. I had plenty of time to prepare with 3 years of corona.


Saturday, April 16, 2022

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With my last 30+ classes of motivation to the students of class 11, I realize I have very close finding the single topic I am willing to commit myself to for the rest of my life that will encompass all my knoweldge. This field is: PSYCHOBIOLOGY or BIOPSYCHOLOGY With this topic I can integrate the […]

My new strategic thinking

Saturday, April 16, 2022

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Lately I am having thoughts that I am old and geting older every day. It follows that I cannot rely on my od strategies for business thinking. That od way can be stated as: Do whatever you feel urged to do. Get as much money from the client as you can Become the center of […]